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July 22, 2018 at 5:57 pm #4638
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KeymasterMy son is getting bullied in his school again and again ,few set of friends annoys him and tease him ,he finds it hard to ignore them as they chased him and makes facial expression on him and call him by names and push him as well and don’t Let him play with others as well
Same incident has happened before with different set of boys and my kid got bruises as well and at that time I intervene and spoke to the parents itself but it went worst and we end up having chats with his class teacher and school head but they took it very lightly but after lots of discussion we got an apology letter from the head of the school .
Same incident has happened before with different set of boys and my kid got bruises as well and at that time I intervene and spoke to the parents itself but it went worst and we end up having chats with his class teacher and school head but they took it very lightly but after lots of discussion we got an apology letter from the head of the school .
My son is very scared to speak to his teacher as he is a very shy boy and other boys tease him a lot if they comes to know that he went to speak to teacher and they always are ready for some backup plan.
Same incident has happened before with different set of boys and my kid got brusies as well and at that time I intervene and spoke to the parents itself but it went worst and we end up having chats with his class teacher and school head but they took it very lightly but after lots of discussion we got an apology letter from the head of the school .
Now this time I know the parent but don’t want to speak to them.
Please suggest how should I help my child .
My heart is crying ,can’t see my child in pain .According to him he don’t have anyone to play in his break time ,he just want to hide some where ,its only he and his cars and just the playground.
My husband wants to change his school but according to me changing school in the middle of the term is not a solution specially when he is preparing for grammar exams .
Please suggest
July 22, 2018 at 5:59 pm #4639ILUK
KeymasterAarti Kumar : Hi , my son’s been through similar situations in 2 different schools, after the first instance we changed his school as we got no support from them. Then after moving to a new school after a while similar issues started up here and this time we got a lot of support from the school. Despite of that he is still going through these issues. I have now looked at other ways to support him. I do think though changing schools might help as this will make him feel u are listening and care. Because even if you are doing that at the moment in his mind your actions may not match. Also please remember an unhappy child will never be able to perform in anything eventually, not just grammar school assessments. I know what you are going through but eventually we can only support them
July 22, 2018 at 6:01 pm #4641ILUK
KeymasterPurnima Bhati: Hi, I can’t imagine what he must be going through. You have to speak to school head and class teacher and demand they need to sort it out as your child’s well being is their responsibility too. You can may be send anonymous letter to ofsted complaining about the situation. I hope this situation gets resolved Asap xx
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